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    September 06

    曳尾于涂中?相忘于江湖?

    庄子。大宗师里有这么个故事:
    “泉涸,鱼相与处于陆,相呴以湿,相濡以沫,曷若相忘于江湖。”
    说的是,河里的水干了,两条鱼被困在陆地上了,只能互相嘘息口沫,我不知道相濡以沫是相依为命互相扶持
    还是艰难困苦下的互相伤害,相信两者都有吧。
    对于这两条鱼来说,或许是为了相遇才曳尾于涂中,或许是曳尾于涂中才相遇,总之再也没有海阔凭鱼跃的自由自在了,
    即使用口沫延续对方的生命,同时也在用身体带给对方痛楚,想想都很心酸,所以庄子说,不如相忘于江湖,
    是啊,那样多潇洒,带点无情的潇洒,留下惆怅的浪漫,一时或会痛苦,
    但相比一个海洋,一滴泪多么容易淡化,相比天长地久,一种思念多么容易模糊。
    我不知道这两条鱼是怎么想的,更不知道另外两条鱼又会选择潇洒,还是执着痛苦。
    庄周或许真是洒脱的圣人,但无情未必真豪杰,屡险若平,苦中作乐,选择执着又何尝不是种洒脱,
    这两条鱼就这么执子之手,苦守冬夏,曳尾之时,或许也有无限温馨,我们不是鱼,不知鱼之乐。
    何况,世上的事无定势,夜雨连绵,秋水涨池,那两条鱼未尝不可遨游于江湖。

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    zhe pengwrote:
    嗯呐,好像几乎所有的道理,都在两千年之前就被人说尽了。
    Sept. 13
    云鹏 翟wrote:
    偶尔的一点感慨,其实没什么大不了的,就是这天突然看到庄子的这段话,真的触动很大。。。
    时间过去了几千年,但生活好像并没能脱离几千年的观念和认识。
    Sept. 12
    zhe pengwrote:
    师兄在感慨什么呢?
    Sept. 7
    yin chenwrote:
    很美的文字~
    Sept. 7
    Qing LIUwrote:
    在国外久了,对国内朋友的生活知之甚少。夜里4点多还能写博客,想必真的是感触良深吧:)希望一切顺利
    Sept. 6

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